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Post by blackcross45 on Sat Jul 11, 2009 2:55 pm

Ok. So in my school a few rumours have turned into scandals. Me being one of the victims. One rumour spread out about me and Niarra being 'Ka-On' or this is translated as the same sex relationship. Just because I was TALKING to a younger year doesn't mean I'm going out with her. So then, my best friend/ crsuh (ashley you know who it is. please don't mention any names) found out and is now mad because she thought it was real. She told me. "Bakit hindi mo naman sinabi sa akin? Kaibigan mo ako at itinatago mo sa akin??" translated to: "Why didn't you tell me? I'm your friend and you hid it from me??"

Now she won't talk to me!!! WHat should I do???
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Post by musicxtensai on Sat Jul 11, 2009 3:33 pm

I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. Ganyan din sa St. Scho. Promise. Ang DAMING rumours na nagkakakalat-kalat .. super bilis pa.>w< (It's the same in our school. Promise. There are so many rumours spreading... and fast!) When you're in an all-girls school, people think it's normal but you, yourself don't especially when it's just a rumour. Try to talk to one of your classmates to tell your best friend that it's not true. That's what I did when my best friend and I fought one time. Or if your best friend is your classmate, when the teacher is not around or any situation possible to stand infront of the class, spill it out-- "Guys, listen, hindi totoo na mag-ka-on kami. (... it's not true that we're having a relationship)" then prove it. >w< I think there's a great big chance that they're going to believe you since they're your classmates and stuff, right?? >___<

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Post by blackcross45 on Sat Jul 11, 2009 3:35 pm

I plan on talking to her alone...
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Post by musicxtensai on Sat Jul 11, 2009 3:37 pm

Ohh~ (I make a stupid psychologist.. XD ^^;) Then tell it to her at once cuz it just makes things worse if you put intros and stuff~ that's what my teacher told me yesterday. >__<

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Post by blackcross45 on Sat Jul 11, 2009 3:39 pm

that's true... i'm going to talk to her on monday~
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Post by musicxtensai on Sat Jul 11, 2009 3:44 pm

ganbatte nyaaaa!! talk to her as soon as possible on monday so it doesn't get worse!! >__<

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Post by blackcross45 on Sat Jul 11, 2009 3:46 pm

yup yup....
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Post by rae_yna on Sat Jul 11, 2009 4:32 pm

okay~ why does everyone had a problem now? what the hell is happening to the world~ well it is that i'm not having a great problem~ because i never had them,~ well i do have~ but why do we have to be so down if they are the who had a loss and not us? i'm not being rude or anything~ why do friends really betray~ well as inoo said FRIENDSHIP IS ALL ABOUT BETRAYING AND BEING BETRAYED~ am i turning into a bad girl now? not really~ i'm being realistic~ girls not to be sarcastic or rude~ we should all face it~ it's the twentieth century no one is a saint anymore~
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Post by blackcross45 on Sat Jul 11, 2009 4:35 pm

it'll be a miracle who will be a saint in this century~ maybe nami~
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Post by rae_yna on Sat Jul 11, 2009 4:38 pm

did i appear rude or anything to you now? this is what i learned from my psychology test~ be a real talker and just don't give flattering words because it might hurt more than helping~ so what i said earlier is completely my thoughts~ i don't want to fake anything to you guys~
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Post by Luvdaisuke on Sun Jul 12, 2009 2:37 pm

DDD: How could I not see this before! That's a horrible rumour! What is Niarra saying to this? If I were you, I'd take your friend/crush (not saying name for your sake) and tell her, "It is a rumour and it's not true. If you were my friend, you'd believe me instead of everyone else" She should. I mean, if she's your friend, believing a rumour instead of your friend's word doesn't make them a trustworthy friend... sorry for being a bit harsh... I seem to be really mean and crabby recently.. I need coffee.. xD
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Post by ixa.velle on Sun Jul 12, 2009 2:40 pm

Horrible... I think I know who the girl is.... Don't ruin it!!!!
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Post by blackcross45 on Sun Jul 12, 2009 5:26 pm

Goddd.... thanks for all your advice. And Ixa, please dont mention any names for now. Please.

Anyways, I'll be under the radar for a while since I am going full time. (I sound like a full time parent here.). From everything being piled up to me to this stupid rumour, godd.... I'm really going to be having full hands for now. So, sorry~
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Post by blackcross45 on Mon Jul 13, 2009 5:23 pm

I got a new problem now..... *yelps* help me........ DD:
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Post by Luvdaisuke on Tue Jul 14, 2009 5:00 am

uh oh... there's full of troubles with you, isn't there? >P
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Post by blackcross45 on Wed Jul 15, 2009 6:11 am

yes...
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Post by Luvdaisuke on Wed Jul 15, 2009 7:12 am

Tell us your problem then, we'll listen ^^
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Post by rae_yna on Wed Jul 15, 2009 12:49 pm

what is the problem amanda??
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